This blog is dedicated to my dad George, one of the greatest men in the world. November 10, 1944 - March 8, 2007.
I've been struggling with this blog for about a week now... I'd get something written down and then change my mind about it. How exactly do you pay tribute to one of the greatest men in the world.. with just mere words? So I've decided I'm going to just do one of my rambly blogs.. just of things to do with dad.
Everyone who knew my dad loved him.. he had a wonderful sense of humor and was a kind person. Dad liked being social and enjoyed being around people.. which is kind of funny seeing as mom is anti-social and doesn't like being around people much. Dad adored his girls.. and he would have given us the moon if we asked. Dad loved mom, and mom loved dad.. they were like teenagers in love and managed to stay that way for 37 years.
I often talk about dad's sense of humor when I post about him.. he was always telling jokes and playing pranks. When he lost the ability to speak and had to use the box to talk for him, he macro'd two jokes.. one went like this "People think it is the box talking to them because they can not see my lips move... pretty good ventriloquist act hey" and the other was "There was once an Indian chief who wanted his son to be the first to go to college. His son went to college and became an engineer.. upon returning to the tribe he asked the chief what he could do for the tribe since they had been so generous to him. The chief thought about it for a minute and said, the old folk have been having troubles tripping when they go to the outhouse at night, some lights would help them. Thus the chief's son became the first person to wire a head for a reservation"... think about it a second and you'll get it.
I remember when I broke my nose and wound up in the ER to get fixed up. Dad had a hard time with the sight of blood, and I was a mess. He went to the gift shop and bought me a stuffed Snoopy dressed up for Halloween. Poor dad was pale as all get out when he gave me that stuffed Snoopy.. but he was going to be there no matter what.
Dad liked his television.. every night he would be watching something on TV. He really enjoyed watching Jay Leno at night. Mom bought him a big screen TV, when that one died we all went shopping for another one with dad. Of course we had to go to the big screen sections.. dad said that he could watch the small screen TVs if he had to, but that things were much better on the big screen. We got another huge screen TV.. I remember packing it in the crate for the move. Dad bought a ton of bubble wrap and wrapped it up, and then we had to carefully move it very slowly.. when we put it in the crate we had to pack all our clothes, sheets, blankets, etc. around it so that it had extra protection. When the crates arrived, it was one of the first things that dad had us unpack. ROFL.. The last year of his life when he was ashamed to go out much because he didn't want to scare people (he was pretty disfigured and the bone had died so it smelled pretty bad) he spent a lot of time in front of that TV... it was mostly background noise while he put together puzzles or dozed off, but he did love his TV.
Another thing dad loved was music.. he spent a lot of time listening to jazz and Motown. He didn't have much fondness for the music me and my sisters listened to.. he would refer to Guns N Roses are "Popguns and Posies". Heh.. that still makes me smile. I have dad's CD collection now.. I play them quite a bit, the jazz especially helps me to think when I need to clear my head. Funny thing is before dad passed away jazz was alright, but not something I would go looking for. 'Course.. there are songs that remind me of dad.. not just the jazz, but in general. There is one song in particular that can make me cry, but doesn't make the siblings or the twidgets sad.. Dance With My Father. It gets me every time.
Since dad has passed we have had some strange things happen.. people refer to them as "winks", dad letting us know that he's still here. When dad quit smoking many many many years ago mom bought him a gold toothpick because he had chewed on toothpicks to quit smoking. That gold toothpick resided in his wallets for over 30 years. Recently when we were moving mom's old monitor and putting in her new one we found dad's gold toothpick.. on top of the new monitor box. No one had been in dad's wallet.. mom keeps that in dad's nightstand. We're at a loss for explaining how the toothpick got onto the box. Another one was back in January mom and I kept smelling this horrible smell like a rat had died... we looked EVERYWHERE for it.. even in the vents.. no rat. So mom went under the house (err.. I can't because I'm claustrophobic) and didn't find any dead animals.. but did find some damage that the plumber had done when he was fixing our faucet out front.. he had to go under the house to replace that particular faucet. Anyway, the insulation on the pipes had been torn off and the pipes probably would've froze if we hadn't looked for that smell.. the funny part about all this? As soon as mom went under the house, the smell stopped. It's like dad was trying to get our attention and knew that would. One last one.. we had someone come out and fix the heater a while ago.. shortly after that, but before it started to get cold enough for us to use the heater the carbon monoxide detector next to the heater went off a few times.. we replaced it with another one thinking it had malfunctioned.. the new one did the same thing. We had someone come out and check on things.. turns out that the guy who'd been out to fix the heater hadn't put some stuff back right and if we had used the heater it could've very well put carbon monoxide into the house. Dad is certainly looking out for us still it looks like.
Life without dad has been hard.. but I think that he'd be proud of how well we're all holding up. We haven't turned into a sobbing mess and unable to function. We're still a strong family.. I think THAT is one of the big reasons that we haven't turned into a mess. We've got our moments that are tear soaked, but for the most part we try to enjoy life, kind of a way to honor dad... he loved life and made the most of it.
On holidays we do things to celebrate dad instead of mourn him... we'll always miss him, but we all agree that dad would've rather we celebrated his life instead of being all sad and mopey. Tomorrow we're going to Cripple Creek to play slots and enjoy a day trip that gets us out of the house. I'm not sure if dad will rig the slots for us.. it'd be nice, but then again dad enjoyed putting an occasional $20 in the slots and just having fun playing them.
I miss dad with all my heart.. he was a huge part of my world. He's always going to live on in my memories and my heart though.. and he will always be Superman to me.
Love you dad.
Friday, February 29, 2008
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Dieting and lifestyle changes
Like many overweight people I have struggled with diets and trying to find one that works for me. I think the reason many diets fail is that people think of them as short term change rather than a lifestyle change. The whole "I'll go on this until I lose the amount I want to, then I can go back to eating things I like" mentality. People set themselves up for failure by making it seem like a chore.. something they HAVE to do. Of course if you go into it thinking it's going to be a burden you're going to more then likely fail... eventually you'll get tired of doing it and go back to your old ways. Another reason that diets fail is because people don't do their research and wind up doing things the wrong way.
Lets start with Atkins. There are people who get their information on Atkins through their friends and the media. The media portrays Atkins as a "no carb" diet.. basically the "all you can eat meat and bacon" diet. I can't tell you how often I have gotten into conversations with people on Atkins and they always use that as their defense.
First of all Atkins isn't a no carb diet. It is a low carb diet, and the amount of carbs you consume is dependent on the phase you are in. For instance when you do Atkins (by the book and not by what your friends or the media say) you start out in induction. Induction lasts two weeks, unless you choose to extend it.. and on induction you are allowed up to twenty carbs a day. You're supposed to get most of your carbs from vegetables listed in the book.. three cups of salad veggies, or two cups of salad veggies plus one cup of the other veggies. Also, if people read the book they would know that it's not an "all you can eat" diet. On Atkins you are supposed to eat until you are satisfied.. and you're supposed to eat when you get hungry. It's not a free pass to stuff your face until you feel stuffed like people do at Thanksgiving. I think you can also tell from my mention of vegetables that it's more then just a meat and cheese diet. If you're not going to take the time to research how the diet works, why it works, and how it should be done.. why bother doing it at all?
There are plenty of low carb diets out there to choose from. Atkins is the one that I know the best though, so I used it in my example. Often I run into people who have modified some low carb diet to fit their needs and they have had great success on it.. nothing wrong with that, it's just a pet peeve of mine when they claim to be doing "Atkins" or "Southbeach" and they aren't. Yeah.. I'm kind of anal like that, but then there are a lot of people like me out there who would say the same thing so I'm in good company. :)
Lets talk about dieting and lifestyle changes. Dieting is something people do in short term.. it's not something that they plan to do for the rest of their life, just long enough to lose the weight they want to lose. I know a lot of people who yo-yo on diets.. they do really good and then go off the diet and gain a lot of the weight back. If people thought of it more as a lifestyle change.. it might actually end the yo-yo'ing. A lifestyle change is something more permanent.. and unless you're doing a diet like the grapefruit diet or some other diet that requires you to practically starve yourself or eat fairly unhealthy.. perhaps it'd be better to make it a permanent change. Nothing wrong with getting healthy and staying that way right?
Instead of making it a chore.. make it a challenge. Make it fun and/or challenging for yourself, and it won't be something you dread doing.
Last.. but certainly not least... EXERCISE! I've found a lot of people will try dieting but not throw in exercise. This is a big part of weight loss.. it helps your heart, it helps your metabolism, and it helps burn the fat that you want to lose and gets your muscles back into shape. MOST diets worth a darn will tell you that is an important part of it all. :)
Anyhow.. I've rambled enough. Hopefully you'll find something useful in this post.. if you've got anything to add, feel free to leave a comment.
Lets start with Atkins. There are people who get their information on Atkins through their friends and the media. The media portrays Atkins as a "no carb" diet.. basically the "all you can eat meat and bacon" diet. I can't tell you how often I have gotten into conversations with people on Atkins and they always use that as their defense.
First of all Atkins isn't a no carb diet. It is a low carb diet, and the amount of carbs you consume is dependent on the phase you are in. For instance when you do Atkins (by the book and not by what your friends or the media say) you start out in induction. Induction lasts two weeks, unless you choose to extend it.. and on induction you are allowed up to twenty carbs a day. You're supposed to get most of your carbs from vegetables listed in the book.. three cups of salad veggies, or two cups of salad veggies plus one cup of the other veggies. Also, if people read the book they would know that it's not an "all you can eat" diet. On Atkins you are supposed to eat until you are satisfied.. and you're supposed to eat when you get hungry. It's not a free pass to stuff your face until you feel stuffed like people do at Thanksgiving. I think you can also tell from my mention of vegetables that it's more then just a meat and cheese diet. If you're not going to take the time to research how the diet works, why it works, and how it should be done.. why bother doing it at all?
There are plenty of low carb diets out there to choose from. Atkins is the one that I know the best though, so I used it in my example. Often I run into people who have modified some low carb diet to fit their needs and they have had great success on it.. nothing wrong with that, it's just a pet peeve of mine when they claim to be doing "Atkins" or "Southbeach" and they aren't. Yeah.. I'm kind of anal like that, but then there are a lot of people like me out there who would say the same thing so I'm in good company. :)
Lets talk about dieting and lifestyle changes. Dieting is something people do in short term.. it's not something that they plan to do for the rest of their life, just long enough to lose the weight they want to lose. I know a lot of people who yo-yo on diets.. they do really good and then go off the diet and gain a lot of the weight back. If people thought of it more as a lifestyle change.. it might actually end the yo-yo'ing. A lifestyle change is something more permanent.. and unless you're doing a diet like the grapefruit diet or some other diet that requires you to practically starve yourself or eat fairly unhealthy.. perhaps it'd be better to make it a permanent change. Nothing wrong with getting healthy and staying that way right?
Instead of making it a chore.. make it a challenge. Make it fun and/or challenging for yourself, and it won't be something you dread doing.
Last.. but certainly not least... EXERCISE! I've found a lot of people will try dieting but not throw in exercise. This is a big part of weight loss.. it helps your heart, it helps your metabolism, and it helps burn the fat that you want to lose and gets your muscles back into shape. MOST diets worth a darn will tell you that is an important part of it all. :)
Anyhow.. I've rambled enough. Hopefully you'll find something useful in this post.. if you've got anything to add, feel free to leave a comment.
Friday, February 22, 2008
Breakin' the law.. breakin' the law...
For a country that prides ourselves in freedom of speech.. we sure do a lot of censoring and making it hard for people to have their own voice. You're not allowed to say bad words on the radio or television.. even music gets censored over bad words.. remember 2Live Crew.. remember the PMRC?
'Course I'm not here to discuss the PMRC or the fact that you can't say fuck on TV (but bitch apparently is ok.. go figure!). Today's blog is about Low Power FM Radio... here on referred to as LPFM... more commonly referred to as pirate radio due to FCC rules and regulations that make it near impossible to get a license to operate legally.
I am only really familiar with one station, and that is because a friend of mine introduced me to it. I rather enjoyed the station because it had a broader view of current events and also a wider selection of music. The one thing that REALLY appealed was the fact that it wasn't a radio station in a box concept.. the DJ's were free to speak their minds and play the music they wanted to play. They weren't trying to make everything one size fits all.. and I liked that, because lets face it this world is NOT a one size fits all place.
A blurb from the FCC's page on LPFM..."LPFM stations are available to noncommercial educational entities and public safety and transportation organizations, but are not available to individuals or for commercial operations. Current broadcast licensees with interests in other media (broadcast or newspapers) are not eligible to obtain LPFM stations." In short.. if you're just some average dude that wants to create a station to give community news and allow a "public forum" so to speak for people to discuss things going on in the world, voice their opinions, and play music that isn't mainstream.. you're out of luck.
It seems to me that the main reason and essentially the ONLY reason that the FCC and Congress are against LPFM other then from the groups mentioned in the above paragraph is the potential for interference of the licensed stations.
So here is my question.. if the LPFM isn't going to cause interference with the bigger stations, Air Traffic Control, emergency services, military, etc. then why shouldn't they be allowed to get a license? I'd be willing to bet a majority of the pirate stations that exist out there would welcome being licensed. The people who operate these stations and the DJ's that man them aren't criminals.. they're just people who want to be heard and play stuff that mainstream stations don't. Is that so wrong?
It seems a shame that their voices have to be silenced when they aren't doing any harm. Freedom of speech? Not hardly. I think it's time that the FCC and Congress take another look at the LPFM/Pirate stations.. one that perhaps isn't biased towards the big stations with money and the ability to buy the silence of others.
*shrug* Just my opinion.
Couple links for ya'll if you want to read up on the subject yourself..
http://www.lpfm.ws
http://www.fcc.gov/lpfm/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LPFM
'Course I'm not here to discuss the PMRC or the fact that you can't say fuck on TV (but bitch apparently is ok.. go figure!). Today's blog is about Low Power FM Radio... here on referred to as LPFM... more commonly referred to as pirate radio due to FCC rules and regulations that make it near impossible to get a license to operate legally.
I am only really familiar with one station, and that is because a friend of mine introduced me to it. I rather enjoyed the station because it had a broader view of current events and also a wider selection of music. The one thing that REALLY appealed was the fact that it wasn't a radio station in a box concept.. the DJ's were free to speak their minds and play the music they wanted to play. They weren't trying to make everything one size fits all.. and I liked that, because lets face it this world is NOT a one size fits all place.
A blurb from the FCC's page on LPFM..."LPFM stations are available to noncommercial educational entities and public safety and transportation organizations, but are not available to individuals or for commercial operations. Current broadcast licensees with interests in other media (broadcast or newspapers) are not eligible to obtain LPFM stations." In short.. if you're just some average dude that wants to create a station to give community news and allow a "public forum" so to speak for people to discuss things going on in the world, voice their opinions, and play music that isn't mainstream.. you're out of luck.
It seems to me that the main reason and essentially the ONLY reason that the FCC and Congress are against LPFM other then from the groups mentioned in the above paragraph is the potential for interference of the licensed stations.
So here is my question.. if the LPFM isn't going to cause interference with the bigger stations, Air Traffic Control, emergency services, military, etc. then why shouldn't they be allowed to get a license? I'd be willing to bet a majority of the pirate stations that exist out there would welcome being licensed. The people who operate these stations and the DJ's that man them aren't criminals.. they're just people who want to be heard and play stuff that mainstream stations don't. Is that so wrong?
It seems a shame that their voices have to be silenced when they aren't doing any harm. Freedom of speech? Not hardly. I think it's time that the FCC and Congress take another look at the LPFM/Pirate stations.. one that perhaps isn't biased towards the big stations with money and the ability to buy the silence of others.
*shrug* Just my opinion.
Couple links for ya'll if you want to read up on the subject yourself..
http://www.lpfm.ws
http://www.fcc.gov/lpfm/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LPFM
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
The Khmer Rouge
A friend of mine is interested in Asia.. the people, the culture, and the history. A few days ago he showed me some video he had taken on his trip to Cambodia... S-21 and one of the killing fields. It was a sobering experience to watch those videos. I knew about the Khmer Rouge and what they had done, but hadn't ever really read up on it. It's not exactly something they teach about in World History in schools! Now that I have.. I am haunted even more by this tragedy, and in awe of those who have survived it.
1939 marked the start of the Holocaust... it didn't end until 1945. An estimated 5.1 million Jews were killed.. that number does not include other people who were persecuted by the Nazis. A tragedy that has made people angry worldwide, one that won't ever be forgotten.. and rightfully so.
1975, the year that Lon Nol's government falls to the Khmer rouge. In 1979 Vietnam invaded Cambodia and managed to chase the Khmer Rouge out of most of Cambodia. During this nightmare an estimated 1.7 million people were killed. Roughly 25-30% of the entire population of Cambodia.
Little bit of history that led to the Khmer Rouge's rise to power..
1969 The United States started a bombing campaign against Vietnamese targets inside Cambodia. This was supposed to drive the Vietnamese out of Cambodia back into Vietnam. It didn't have the desired effect, in fact it had quite the opposite.. the Vietnamese went further into Cambodia and so did the bombing.
1970 Lon Nol overthrows Sihanouk while Sihanouk is abroad. Sihanouk calls on his people to rise against Lon Nol's government. The war between the Khmer Rouge and Lon Nol's government starts.
1973 The US stops it's bombing campaign, more than a million people killed and 1/2 the population uprooted.
1975 Lon Nol's Government is overthrown by the Khmer Rouge
1979 Vietnam invades Cambodia and set up The People's Republic of Kampuchea. The Khmer Rouge is rearmed and supplied with Western aid.
The Khmer Rouge wanted to turn Cambodia back to the old ways, get rid of the influence of other countries and make it a classless society. They killed intellectuals, professionals, people they suspected of spying for the CIA, etc. They tortured people brutally and killed them in an equally horrifying manner.. one of their favored ways was hitting people in the back of the head and neck with a hoe. Sometimes people didn't die from this.. they were left for dead though. The Khmer Rouge didn't care if you were man, woman, child, infant, sick, elderly, pregnant.. their motto was "Better to destroy ten innocent people than let one enemy go free".
I'm going to suggest a couple books that I have read...
The Lost Executioner by Nic Dunlop, I had a hard time putting this book down because it was written in a way that made you want to know what he will find out next. It tells the story of Comrade Duch through people who knew him and those who know of him, and also tells quite a bit of what happened during the Khmer Rouge and the people who lived and died during their reign.
Beyond the horizon: Five years with the Khmer Rouge by Laurence Picq. This book tells of the story of a French woman who married a Cambodian man, had two children and lived under the rule of the Khmer Rouge.
Children of Cambodia's Killing Fields: Memoirs by survivors by Dith Pran. This book was painful to read.. the entire subject is horrifying, but to read these accounts of young people and how they lose loved ones and how they survived the brutality that was the Khmer Rouge.. it was hard.
My friend has suggested Survial In The Killing Fields by Dr. Haing S. Ngor. I have yet to read it but he speaks highly of it. I do have it on my to read list and should be getting around to it in the next few days.
It boggles my mind that with all that is going on and has gone on in the world, that we are taught so little in schools. How is it that so many people don't know about the Khmer Rouge and the horror that happened there? How is it that so many people don't know about Rawanda, Bosnia, Croatia, Kosovo, Yugoslavia.. there is genocide and ethnic cleansing that is still going on to this day. It's a shame that so little is taught about this in schools.. to me, and to others I have spoken with THIS is an important subject and it should be taught. 'Course.. there isn't enough time in classes to teach everything I guess.
My heart and prayers go out to all the families who have lost loved ones to genocide and ethnic cleansing.
I'm including links to the videos my friend took.. they may be hard for you to watch, but they are worthwhile.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24oBcBwS7mI&feature=user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXyMih3bygc&feature=user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLzX7iS5E_Q&feature=user
I need to add a special thank you here to my friend Brent. He's the one who peaked my interest in the Khmer Rouge and allowed me to include links to his videos. THANK YOU!!!
1939 marked the start of the Holocaust... it didn't end until 1945. An estimated 5.1 million Jews were killed.. that number does not include other people who were persecuted by the Nazis. A tragedy that has made people angry worldwide, one that won't ever be forgotten.. and rightfully so.
1975, the year that Lon Nol's government falls to the Khmer rouge. In 1979 Vietnam invaded Cambodia and managed to chase the Khmer Rouge out of most of Cambodia. During this nightmare an estimated 1.7 million people were killed. Roughly 25-30% of the entire population of Cambodia.
Little bit of history that led to the Khmer Rouge's rise to power..
1969 The United States started a bombing campaign against Vietnamese targets inside Cambodia. This was supposed to drive the Vietnamese out of Cambodia back into Vietnam. It didn't have the desired effect, in fact it had quite the opposite.. the Vietnamese went further into Cambodia and so did the bombing.
1970 Lon Nol overthrows Sihanouk while Sihanouk is abroad. Sihanouk calls on his people to rise against Lon Nol's government. The war between the Khmer Rouge and Lon Nol's government starts.
1973 The US stops it's bombing campaign, more than a million people killed and 1/2 the population uprooted.
1975 Lon Nol's Government is overthrown by the Khmer Rouge
1979 Vietnam invades Cambodia and set up The People's Republic of Kampuchea. The Khmer Rouge is rearmed and supplied with Western aid.
The Khmer Rouge wanted to turn Cambodia back to the old ways, get rid of the influence of other countries and make it a classless society. They killed intellectuals, professionals, people they suspected of spying for the CIA, etc. They tortured people brutally and killed them in an equally horrifying manner.. one of their favored ways was hitting people in the back of the head and neck with a hoe. Sometimes people didn't die from this.. they were left for dead though. The Khmer Rouge didn't care if you were man, woman, child, infant, sick, elderly, pregnant.. their motto was "Better to destroy ten innocent people than let one enemy go free".
I'm going to suggest a couple books that I have read...
The Lost Executioner by Nic Dunlop, I had a hard time putting this book down because it was written in a way that made you want to know what he will find out next. It tells the story of Comrade Duch through people who knew him and those who know of him, and also tells quite a bit of what happened during the Khmer Rouge and the people who lived and died during their reign.
Beyond the horizon: Five years with the Khmer Rouge by Laurence Picq. This book tells of the story of a French woman who married a Cambodian man, had two children and lived under the rule of the Khmer Rouge.
Children of Cambodia's Killing Fields: Memoirs by survivors by Dith Pran. This book was painful to read.. the entire subject is horrifying, but to read these accounts of young people and how they lose loved ones and how they survived the brutality that was the Khmer Rouge.. it was hard.
My friend has suggested Survial In The Killing Fields by Dr. Haing S. Ngor. I have yet to read it but he speaks highly of it. I do have it on my to read list and should be getting around to it in the next few days.
It boggles my mind that with all that is going on and has gone on in the world, that we are taught so little in schools. How is it that so many people don't know about the Khmer Rouge and the horror that happened there? How is it that so many people don't know about Rawanda, Bosnia, Croatia, Kosovo, Yugoslavia.. there is genocide and ethnic cleansing that is still going on to this day. It's a shame that so little is taught about this in schools.. to me, and to others I have spoken with THIS is an important subject and it should be taught. 'Course.. there isn't enough time in classes to teach everything I guess.
My heart and prayers go out to all the families who have lost loved ones to genocide and ethnic cleansing.
I'm including links to the videos my friend took.. they may be hard for you to watch, but they are worthwhile.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24oBcBwS7mI&feature=user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXyMih3bygc&feature=user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLzX7iS5E_Q&feature=user
I need to add a special thank you here to my friend Brent. He's the one who peaked my interest in the Khmer Rouge and allowed me to include links to his videos. THANK YOU!!!
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Mental illness, and addiction.. when did it become funny?
This is kind of a Part Duex to the celebrity rant I did last time I posted.
I can find humor is just about everything.. but I have trouble finding humor in mental illness, addiction, etc. Perhaps it's because I've seen these things up close and personal and have even dealt with them myself.. or maybe it's just that I have a bit more compassion than the general public.
Friend of mine was cracking jokes about Britney Spears today.. going on and on about how loony she is and what a horrible mother she is. I think it's sad that people can find amusement and even what seems like some sort of sick joy out of the tragedy that is her life right now. Come on people.. it's not like she's getting drunk and doing ditzy things right now, she's suffering from a mental illness! What can anyone possibly find funny about that? Yeah.. I get it, she is a celebrity and somehow that puts her on a whole different level then the rest of the world. I think people tend to forget that celebrity status or not, she is still human.. she's going to make mistakes. She isn't immune to things that happen to "normal" people just because she's rich and famous. If you think about it, it's not just about her. She's got two little boys that aren't able to see their mother right now.. who years down the road will have to deal with people dissing their mom and making fun of her because she went crazy. I'm sure there will even be the morons who tell them that she didn't love them because she missed court dates and what not. I guess I need someone to point out to me where the humor is in all this.. because I certainly don't see it.
I can find humor is just about everything.. but I have trouble finding humor in mental illness, addiction, etc. Perhaps it's because I've seen these things up close and personal and have even dealt with them myself.. or maybe it's just that I have a bit more compassion than the general public.
Friend of mine was cracking jokes about Britney Spears today.. going on and on about how loony she is and what a horrible mother she is. I think it's sad that people can find amusement and even what seems like some sort of sick joy out of the tragedy that is her life right now. Come on people.. it's not like she's getting drunk and doing ditzy things right now, she's suffering from a mental illness! What can anyone possibly find funny about that? Yeah.. I get it, she is a celebrity and somehow that puts her on a whole different level then the rest of the world. I think people tend to forget that celebrity status or not, she is still human.. she's going to make mistakes. She isn't immune to things that happen to "normal" people just because she's rich and famous. If you think about it, it's not just about her. She's got two little boys that aren't able to see their mother right now.. who years down the road will have to deal with people dissing their mom and making fun of her because she went crazy. I'm sure there will even be the morons who tell them that she didn't love them because she missed court dates and what not. I guess I need someone to point out to me where the humor is in all this.. because I certainly don't see it.
There doesn't seem to be a shortage of drug/alcohol addicted celebs out there... and there is no shortage of trash mags, blogs, and tv shows that love to yap about it. I guess it's easier to make fun of someone for being falling down drunk/stoned then it is to find some positive news in the world.
I guess maybe I just don't understand why people put so much of an effort into what is going on in celebrities' lives when there is so much more going on in this world that deserves attention. Instead of focusing on the negative that is most celebrities why not focus on the positive? Do we really need to see people belittled and trashed to make our lives seem better? Geez-us.
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